A Midlife Surrogate on Pregnancy, Perimenopause and Letting Go
Heather Nelson
Mom, Wife, Business Coach, Podcaster and Surrogate
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In this episode, I’m joined by Heather Nelson to discuss her very personal story that sheds light on a topic that feels like a black box to many of us—surrogacy.
Heather is a mother, wife, business coach and podcaster who became a surrogate five years ago. Now at 43 and navigating perimenopause, she’s preparing to do it again.
Her story offers a rare, honest look at the emotional and logistical realities of surrogacy—from hormone shots to heart-expanding moments to what it means to grow a baby with the full intention of letting go.
In this episode, we talk about:
✔️Why Heather became a surrogate (and why she’s doing it again)
✔️The extensive medical, emotional, and psychological screening process
✔️What makes a good match between surrogate and intended parents
✔️What it’s like to carry a baby that isn’t yours
✔️How she talks to her husband, kids and even strangers about surrogacy
✔️Postpartum recovery without a baby
✔️Compensation, contracts, and the questions everyone wants to ask
✔️Why the world needs more surrogates—and how to explore it
If you’re anything like me, Heather’s story will leave you both inspired and a little choked up.
About Heather Nelson:
Heather Nelson is a seasoned expert in the hospitality industry with over 20 years of experience. She is also the founder of The Connection Hive, a business strategy consulting company.
Heather is deeply devoted to women's empowerment, hosting the inspiring podcast, Life Conversations with a Twist, and curating women’s events that foster both professional and personal growth.
Beyond her professional pursuits, Heather wears multiple hats as wife, mother of four, surrogate and community leader.
Connect with Heather:
➡️ On Instagram: @heathernelson.life
➡️ Heather’s podcast: Life Conversations with a Twist
➡️ Learn more about her coaching work at theconnectionhive.co
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