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Midlife Advice

For smart & sassy women over 40

Hello, friend! You’ve landed in the right place, where women over 40 come to figure out what the hell is going on with their hormones, emotions, relationships, careers, and… well, everything really.

Join me each week as we dig into perimenopause and menopause, burnout, career pivots, parenting, marriage, purpose, and the constant quest to feel like ourselves again during this wild stage of life.  

You’ll hear honest midlife advice from experts and everyday women, plus real-life tools that actually help with hormone health, mindset, nutrition, and lifestyle. And yes, we also talk about our favorite books and girls’ trips.

If you love hearing from experts, rebels, and wise women rewriting midlife on their own terms, you belong here. Hit play and let’s go.

Check out the latest episodes:

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How to Use Breathwork for Anxiety: What Women Over 40 Need to Know

If anxiety has been showing up lately, especially the kind that seems to arrive without a clear reason or a thought you can point to, Sigmar Berg has a different explanation for where it's coming from. He is the founder of Lovetuner and a mindfulness expert who has spent over a decade at the intersection of breath, sound, and nervous system regulation, and his argument is that most of what we experience as anxiety is actually a body problem, starting with the way we breathe.

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Why You Don't Feel Like Yourself Anymore and How to Reconnect

If you've been catching yourself thinking "I just don't feel like myself" and you can't explain exactly why, there's a real, physiological reason for it. It's not only your hormones, and it's not only because you're stretched impossibly thin, though both matter. 

There's a third factor called interoception: your ability to sense and interpret what's actually happening inside your body. When it goes offline, you lose your sense of self right along with it.

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ADHD in Midlife Women: Is It ADHD, Perimenopause, or Both?

If you've been wondering whether your brain is working against you in your 40s or 50s, ADHD specialist Dr. Jennifer Dall is here to sort it out. She talks about how ADHD shows up differently in high-achieving women, why perimenopause amplifies symptoms that were always there, and what you can actually do about it today, with or without a formal diagnosis.

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Why Perimenopause Symptoms Vary So Much (And What Your DNA Has to Do With It)

If your perimenopause symptoms feel heavier, stranger, or more relentless than what the women around you are going through, it might be your DNA.

Listen in as Kim Ressler, Founder and CEO of SNiP Nutrigenomics, and I come together to explore this question: what if your genetic blueprint is shaping not just when you enter menopause, but exactly how hard the whole thing hits you?

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How to Reinvent Yourself in Midlife by Changing Your Identity First

If you've looked around at your life lately and thought, I have everything I wanted, so why don't I feel like myself? this episode is for you. I'm joined by Ellen Baker, novelist and founder of The Next Chapter Studio, to talk about reinventing yourself in midlife by doing something most of us have completely backwards: choosing your identity before you have proof you're there.

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AI Tools for Midlife Women: Why Generic Advice Falls Short and What the Meraki Dignity Project Is Building Instead

If you've ever typed a very specific, very personal question into ChatGPT and gotten back an answer that was technically accurate but somehow not quite for you, there's a reason. In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Georges, a former Wall Street analyst and C-suite executive who is building an AI platform trained specifically on women-informed, evidence-based research.

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The Best Summer Reading List for Women Over 40 in 2026

Alexis Lynch reads more books in a year than most people read in a decade, and in this episode, she brings her full 2026 summer reading list for women over 40. We discuss three picks, updated tips for actually reading more when life is full, and a deep-dive conversation about Heart the Lover by Lily King that is so good we can hardly stand it.

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Plastic Surgery in Midlife: When to Consider It, What Recovery Looks Like, and How to Find the Right Surgeon

If you have looked in the mirror lately and felt like you're not quite seeing yourself anymore, and you have tried the serums, the fillers, the tightening treatments, this episode is for you. I sat down with Dr. Carolyn Chang, a board-certified plastic surgeon in San Francisco, to answer the question a lot of midlife women are wondering: is there actually something I can do about this? And if so, what exactly is that?

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How to Lose Weight After 40: Why Most Diets Fail Midlife Women and What Brain-Based Weight Loss Offers Instead

If you have tried more diets than you can count and they all stopped working, or never worked to begin with, you are not the problem. Lizzie Merritt, a certified life coach and bestselling author of LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss, is here to talk about what is actually going on when traditional diets fail midlife women, why your nervous system has more to do with your eating habits than your willpower does, and what a brain-based approach to weight loss looks like in real life.

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Skincare for Women Over 40: What Your Changing Skin Actually Needs

If your skin feels completely different than it did a decade ago, drier, more sensitive, and harder to please despite a longer and more expensive routine, you are not imagining it. In this episode of Midlife Advice, I sit down with May Lindstrom, founder of May Lindstrom Skin, to talk about what midlife skin actually needs, why adding more products often backfires, and the simple shifts that make a real difference for women over 40.

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Not Feeling Heard in Your Relationship? How to Rebuild Connection in Midlife (5-Step Framework)

Not feeling heard in a relationship is one of the most common challenges for midlife women, especially in long-term partnerships where conversations can start to feel like logistics, criticism, or defensiveness instead of real connection. If you’ve ever wondered why communication in your relationship feels harder than it used to, or why you and your partner keep having the same conversations without actually feeling understood, you’re in the right place.

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Are Hidden Mineral Imbalances Causing Your Brain Fog, Fatigue, and Mood Swings?

If you are dealing with brain fog, fatigue, mood swings, irritability, low energy, or a metabolism that feels like it has changed overnight, you might assume hormones are the whole story. And yes, hormones matter. But in this episode, we look at another foundational piece of midlife health that almost no one is talking about enough: mineral imbalances.

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Why Work Feels So Hard Lately for Midlife Women (Career Burnout + What to Do)

Ever catch yourself thinking… why does work feel so hard lately?

You’re showing up, doing everything “right,” and yet you feel more exhausted, more disconnected, and less motivated than ever. If you’ve been wondering if your job is even right for you anymore—or if you’re dealing with career burnout, overwork, or that nagging sense that something is off—this episode is for you.

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